Oct 12, 2014
I’m a simple woman, I like handsome bearded brunette men and breakfast food.
(via oceanicforest)

(Source: thatkindofwoman, via dead-end-street)

Oct 12, 2014

Men always say that as the defining compliment, don’t they? She’s a cool girl. Being the Cool Girl means I am a hot, brilliant, funny woman who adores football, poker, dirty jokes, and burping, who plays video games, drinks cheap beer, loves threesomes and anal sex, and jams hot dogs and hamburgers into her mouth like she’s hosting the world’s biggest culinary gang bang while somehow maintaining a size 2, because Cool Girls are above all hot. Hot and understanding. Cool Girls never get angry; they only smile in a chagrined, loving manner and let their men do whatever they want. Go ahead, shit on me, I don’t mind, I’m the Cool Girl.

Men actually think this girl exists. Maybe they’re fooled because so many women are willing to pretend to be this girl. For a long time Cool Girl offended me. I used to see men – friends, coworkers, strangers – giddy over these awful pretender women, and I’d want to sit these men down and calmly say: You are not dating a woman, you are dating a woman who has watched too many movies written by socially awkward men who’d like to believe that this kind of woman exists and might kiss them. I’d want to grab the poor guy by his lapels or messenger bag and say: The bitch doesn’t really love chili dogs that much – no one loves chili dogs that much! And the Cool Girls are even more pathetic: They’re not even pretending to be the woman they want to be, they’re pretending to be the woman a man wants them to be. Oh, and if you’re not a Cool Girl, I beg you not to believe that your man doesn’t want the Cool Girl. It may be a slightly different version – maybe he’s a vegetarian, so Cool Girl loves seitan and is great with dogs; or maybe he’s a hipster artist, so Cool Girl is a tattooed, bespectacled nerd who loves comics. There are variations to the window dressing, but believe me, he wants Cool Girl, who is basically the girl who likes every fucking thing he likes and doesn’t ever complain. (How do you know you’re not Cool Girl? Because he says things like: “I like strong women.” If he says that to you, he will at some point fuck someone else. Because “I like strong women” is code for “I hate strong women.”)

Gone Girl, Gillian Flynn (via thevirtueofavirgin)

So, like, Amy was obviously 100 shades of unhinged but her Cool Girl rant made it nearly impossible for me not to root for her. Whoops.

(via doseofwords)

(Source: ithinkyoushouldknow, via doseofwords)

Oct 4, 2014
threesixfifteen:

Alreadystoppedcaring

threesixfifteen:

Alreadystoppedcaring

Oct 4, 2014
Stop comparing where you’re at with where everyone else is. It doesn’t move you farther ahead, improve your situation, or help you find peace. It just feeds your shame, fuels your feelings of inadequacy, and ultimately, it keeps you stuck. The reality is that there is no one correct path in life. Everyone has their own unique journey. A path that’s right for someone else won’t necessarily be a path that’s right for you. And that’s okay. Your journey isn’t right or wrong, or good or bad. It’s just different. Your life isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s because you aren’t like anyone else. You’re a person all your own with a unique set of goals, obstacles, dreams, and needs. So stop comparing, and start living. You may not have ended up where you intended to go. But trust, for once, that you have ended up where you needed to be. Trust that you are in the right place at the right time. Trust that your life is enough. Trust that you are enough.
Daniell Koepke  (via havishams)

(Source: internal-acceptance-movement, via carswinky)

Oct 4, 2014
datebynumbers:

An important PSA from one of my closest companions.  
Because this seems to be a rampant problem amongst my friend circle.  And amongst my readers.  And amongst the seemingly most indecisive class of men to enter the dating realm ever.  
Stay strong, love.  There’s a gallon of vodka with your name on it in Colorado.

datebynumbers:

An important PSA from one of my closest companions.  

Because this seems to be a rampant problem amongst my friend circle.  And amongst my readers.  And amongst the seemingly most indecisive class of men to enter the dating realm ever.  

Stay strong, love.  There’s a gallon of vodka with your name on it in Colorado.

Oct 4, 2014

notabadday:

"Not enough for me? You are everything."

JIM😍

(via shaeliveswell)

Oct 4, 2014
Oct 4, 2014

I think about it everyday.

Sep 30, 2014
Alt-J - Every Other Freckle

plainjanefaye:

Every Other Freckle || Alt-J

I want to share your mouthful
I want to do all the things your lungs do so well
I’m gonna bed into you like a cat beds into a beanbag
Turn you inside out and lick you like a crisp packet

(Source: thatmusictasteslikeheaven, via fogblogger)

Sep 22, 2014
beatonna:

time for haircut

beatonna:

time for haircut

(via acanadianbroadinkorea)

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